Staying calm

Well today isn't really a good day for me ? Because i just got lectured by my dad in the car and .. it didn't seems to turn well .Dad is giving me all the advice and I just took it for granted . So , my parents weren't so happy because first of all .. I fight back . I suddenly speak very loud ? and kept rejecting that It wasn't my fault . The problem is .. like all parents is that they have a lot of prove . Way more prove than us that we didn't do this and that . ( Don't want to mention the faults ) And , if I didn't listen whatever advice he gave to me ? he would just be in a very bad mood .( My dad ) And that's what really happen to today . I was sad and frustrated of course and so as the entire family . So .. as i was going on my own normal life but in a very bad shape ? Firstly , I admit .. i did mention a lot of rude words that shouldn't be said out or kept in my mind .  But eventually ..slowly but surely ..I realize that , it was my fault all the time . Remember i post something about forgiveness ? And i did mention .. give me some time to calm down ? I did that with the help of God too . I was praying in my heart saying.. please calm down alright ?... Everything is going to be fine ( said that repeatedly times ) and many more words to stay who i really am.So .. when i think about God ? I think about my Family.What have I done was so not me at that time.. "I'm sorry dad". So , i did admit eventually and I did say I'm sorry to my Dad too . But that forgiveness i said to him ? Makes everything goes back to normal . No more anger , no more sadness . Is just a mixture of calm and ..maybe a small smile ? on everyone ? :)  So the next time my parents get angry again or anyone else parents ? Just accept it to make things better at a short time.I know its hard to control our emotion ? But we have to . Is the best of both worlds.Always remember,God is always trying his best to keep us all calm .And we can play a role by praying silently to god . There is a reason why our parents lecture us .We are just not admitting it because we thought that we are always rite , well most of the time ..But we are wrong . I was wrong too .So yea , that's what really happen today . :)